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KRNB-FM's Rudy V is the smoothest operator on the air, whether you're a man in trouble or a woman in love

"They think there's this stable of women," he says. "It's hard to get somebody to e-mail you without them wondering who else is e-mailing you."

Williams says he'd love to share the company of a "considerate, spiritual, and caring woman," someone who understands he's not the doctor of love 24/7. He admits he has his flaws. And he doesn't shy away from questions about his failed second marriage. "We fought hard, and it's a combination of both of us not being willing to succumb to what it takes for two people to stay married to one another," he says. "Which is continual adaptation. Adapting and adjusting.

"There's no doubt in my mind that we were in love with one another. I don't think she would argue that she didn't feel at the time that it was divine."

Mark Graham
Rudy V greets some of his fans, including Kelli Ross, left, and Kasi Scott, at Club Phenomenon, Dallas' hot new upscale dance club. Rudy makes appearances at the club on Friday and Saturday nights and hosts a jazz brunch on Sunday.
Mark Graham
Rudy V greets some of his fans, including Kelli Ross, left, and Kasi Scott, at Club Phenomenon, Dallas' hot new upscale dance club. Rudy makes appearances at the club on Friday and Saturday nights and hosts a jazz brunch on Sunday.

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Then he abruptly shifts course.

"Obviously, because life is about results," he says, echoing one of his father's favorite sayings, "we weren't in love with each other."

You weren't?

"How can we be?" he says. "We're not together. God is love, and if you don't first commit yourself to God, there's no way in the world you can commit yourself to someone else."

It isn't exactly clear where Williams is going with this. Was she deficient in commitment? Was he?

"Not like I should've been in terms of that relationship," he confesses. "Because, I mean -- we had premarital sex."

Williams then launches into a discourse about commitment to God, which takes priority over a relationship, he says. It's a lesson he's always laying on listeners -- like the man who calls in one night asking for prayer that he and his fiancée will have a happy life together. The couple were expecting a baby and had just moved in together. Rudy V didn't waste any time warning the man that he's got it backward. "Don't you want your union to be blessed by God, brother?" he asks the caller.

"It won't work that way," Williams says, referring to premarital sex and an old-school term, shacking up. "It can, but it's a crapshoot."

One he lost with "Rhonnie."

Looking back, he concedes he jumped into the marriage too soon and failed to forgive. "I'm a very principled individual," he says. "I'd be the first to admit when I am wrong. Humility. Lord knows I could write a book entitled Humility."

Since his breakup with Rhonnie, he's moved on. His parents say he's a better man for it; his failure has made him more patient, they say.

In one of his first interviews with the Dallas Observer, Williams revealed he "had his eye on somebody" when asked whether he was romantically involved. That was in December. Just two months later, the DJ was heard sadly relating to a listener that the relationship hadn't worked out.

Queue up "A House Is Not a Home," by Luther Vandross.

That type of lasting relationship will have to wait. Not that Rudy V is looking for things to do. He's landed a bit part in a locally produced film, and he's working on a novel: When It's Love...The Jeremy Love Story.

It's about a fictional late-night DJ who gives great advice about love but can't keep a woman himself.

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