Daddy Dearest|Beats Us|Give Him an "A"|Lights Out

"American Girls," by Glenna Whitley, June 19

Daddy Dearest

As a now-adult daughter of an Egyptian father and American mother (along with having one sister as well), I was more than horrified to read "American Girls." Thankfully, my experience with my father has been different. My father has given to my sister and me even when he has had nothing to give. He has been our No. 1 supporter in life as well as our best friend.

As I read this story, I couldn't help but notice the importance that was placed on Yaser Said's nationality and religion. I do not believe that either of these played a role in this awful tragedy. Most children of Arabs and Muslims will admit that their parents are protective, but not violent, and do want their children to be happy and successful.

The issue here is not religion, culture or nationality. The issue is domestic violence and a mother who perhaps was too scared, or cowardly, to stand up for her own children. Let us see the progression of violence: first verbal abuse, then sexual, then murder. Abuse is blind to color, age, sex, nationality, religion.

I hope your readers realize that the fact that this evil man was Egyptian and Muslim had very little, if anything, to do with his daughters' deaths.

I know that my Egyptian father wants nothing more than happiness and good things for my sister and me. He is my hero and best friend. How sad that these girls didn't get to experience the positive side of their culture as I have.

Sarah Nour, Dallas

"Do Not Disturb," by Sam Merten, June 26

Beats us

Outrageous! Why isn't anyone investigating Mr. Leppert and his cohort? What they are attempting to do is criminal, which is defrauding the Dallas taxpayers. Everyone who sees this for what it is should call for a criminal investigation. Is it really that easy to for a city mayor and a group of city council members to collude and bilk the city taxpayers out of HALF A BILLION DOLLARS?! Can't anyone stop these people? And why aren't Dallas residents more outraged? Don't they realize what it means when their city is in debt for more than a BILLION DOLLARS? Think higher property taxes, city surcharges, foreclosures, cost of living skyrocketing! God, what is wrong with Dallas residents? They can't all be that stupid!

Reuben L. Owens, via dallasobserver.com

Something just doesn't smell right with the lack of public debate over $500 million of taxpayer money going into business to run a hotel at the beginning of an economic downturn. It appears suspicious in the least when most of the city leaders except a couple are "full steam ahead" without doing a proper feasibility study.

Ken Hoover, via dallasobserver.com

"For Whom the Bell Tolls," by Sam Merten, June 26

Give Him an "A"

Thanks to Sam Merten and the Dallas Observer for the excellent article on GPS monitoring of truant students. It was comprehensive, balanced and well-researched. The Observer article trumped all other news coverage of this particular truancy intervention program by eschewing sound bites in favor of in-depth and accurate reporting. As co-founder of the A.I.M. (Attendance Improvement Management) program cited in the article, I appreciate Merten's effort to accurately explain the program and its relationship to schools, the court system and the students involved. Kudos for a job well done.

Shelton Stogner, Richardson

"R.I.P. Reunion," by Richie Whitt, June 26

Lights out

A-hole. You made me tear up. In the Gazeebo Burger! Floor seats for the '86 slam dunk. It looked like Spud missed his first dunk and wouldn't advance. It was still cool to see a guy that size go that high. Then Kevin McCarthy announced over the PA that Spud had actually bounced the ball off the top of his head after making the dunk! It physically hurt to be in that arena for the Lakers game.

Jim, via dallasobserver.com

 
  • Sally Rowley 07/07/2008 6:29:00 AM

    An Open Letter to: Greg Hudson (Dallas Zoo Director) Mayor Tom Leppert The Dallas Zoo board of directors Paul Dyer, Director of Parks and Recreation Dallas City Council Members We are respectfully requesting that the leadership of the Dallas Zoo kindly reconsider the Zoo's recent decision to move �Jenny� -- the zoo's last remaining African elephant -- to a Mexican theme park. The Elephant Sanctuary in Tennessee (TES) and PAWS in California are facilities like no other. TES has already offered to take her at no cost to the zoo (or the taxpayers) and this opportunity would offer �Jenny� true freedom for the first time and the company of others of her species: African Elephants. Sending her to the facility in Mexico would keep her on �display� for tourists in cars while TES would allow her hundreds of acres to explore. We are so fortunate today that facilities such as TES and PAWS exist and it�s for this reason that we are questioning the zoo�s decision. Why would there be any question about which facility would be better for a captive elephant? A Mexican theme park --VERSUS -- a true sanctuary that is close by with spacious facilities, caring staff, and excellent care. It�s not as if there are no other alternatives for Jenny � this is why we cannot understand your zoo�s decision! Also, we didn�t find any good answers from your statement on your web site about this decision. In the statement on your website you state that sending her to Mexico in an AZA facility is acceptable because it meets the standards of the AZA. However it doesn't provide her any protections under the laws of the U.S. TES and PAWS actually far exceeds the standards of the AZA (something left out of this statement) because TES and PAWS are truly sanctuaries where the animals receive the respect, care, and space far beyond what any zoo can provide an elephant. Elephant experts agree that the AZA practices leave much to be desired when it comes to meeting the needs of captive elephants. We are not experts in the care of elephants, but we have done extensive research into what the experts say IS the best care for captive elephants. It has become an accepted fact that circuses, zoos, and theme amusement parks (such as the proposed new home for Jenny) cannot provide the optimum care for captive elephants. Please consider that the following zoos have sent their elephants to TES or PAWS: El Paso Zoo, the Milwaukee Zoo, the Mesker Park Zoo, the Louisiana Purchase Gardens and Zoo, the Henry Vilas Zoo, Chehaw Wild Animal Park, the Detroit Zoo, San Francisco Zoo, Los Angeles Zoo -- and most recently, the Philadelphia and Alaska Zoos. Why not join them? Please consider what the experts in the field know is true about the health and well being of elephants. They need LOTS of space and a natural habitat, (in the wild they constantly move) and the companionship of other elephants (of their own species) in order to be healthy. After so many years of service to the Dallas community, (and zoo) doesn't "Jenny" deserve better? Please, we urge you to support sending "Jenny" to a life of sanctuary now -- doesn't she deserve to finally retire to a place where she may roam in peace with her own kind? We understand that PETA has offered you an �all expenses paid� trip to experience first-hand the incredible care Jenny will receive at TES. Why not take them up on their offer before any final plans are made? What have you got to lose? If you have the time, we urge you to take a look at the sanctuary web sites (listed below) to see how other retired elephants have been able to finally thrive when they have the right conditions and are allowed to simply be elephants. www.elephants.com or www.paws.com Thank you for your time and consideration. Best wishes to you, Zoo Board Members, Members of the Dallas City Council, and Dept. of Parks and Recreation who will undoubtedly be reconsidering this decision in the coming days and weeks. We would like to thank you for re-considering this decision for Jenny � we urge you to please do what is best for HER. Sincerely, Sally Rowley, Dallas Sandra MacLean, Fort Worth Kelly MacLennan, San Francisco

  • Linda Dugan 07/06/2008 2:24:00 AM

    RE: "Pack Your Trunk" This is what happens when truth is squashed by politics and power. A lonely elephant is tranquilized for �bad� behavior, prodded with bull hooks and put in solitary confinement. She is then denied future housing that will ensure her at least minimal protection under the Animal Welfare Act here in the States at an elephant sanctuary guaranteed to provide her with acres of rolling hills, companionship with other elephants of her species nutrition and medical care. It seems obvious this problem is not about what is best for Jenny. But why would it be? According to her history, it never was.

 

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