Elaine, your last paragraph says it all. You may be trying to establish your cred with your Tuesdays with Morrie reference, but your level of misunderstanding is overwhelming. It takes courage to leave oneâ€™s comfort zone and not much to stay in oneâ€™s own backyard. The play was moving and funny, showing how friendships develop and change. If you want bad advice, believe what Elaine has written!