Dallas and Fort Worth Are Two of the Top Cities for Cougars, According to Online Dating Site

Attention, men of the Dallas area: If you are 30 to 50 years old and into women who are 10 years older than you, man, are you in luck. Dallas just happens to rank seventh in "cougar" activity in America.

According to the online dating site PlentyOfFish, a cougar is a woman between the ages of 40 and 60 who dates a man about 10 years younger. After analyzing their messaging data, the researchers found that Texas claims five of the top 10 cities with a high rate of cougars among the fish. Dallas and Fort Worth rank No. 7 and 8 respectively. 

Steve Oldridge, research lead at PlentyOfFish, says that little thing called life expectancy — women live longer than men — might explain why some women end up dating younger.

"Once you hit that 50-year-old mark, there's fewer and fewer men for the women in Dallas to date. I think that's one of the key reasons [for the cougars]," he says.

OK, but that's everywhere. Why Dallas? Oldridge didn't have a good theory for why DFW, or the South in general, dominates the top 10. "It was an interesting finding for sure," he says.

PlentyOfFish's research also confounded the stereotype of cougars as spendthrifts who love to drink. Most of the cougars they examined had a lower than average income and drank only socially.

Researchers looked at 500 single women* between the ages of 40 and 60, and found that 28 percent of the women answered, "It's purely physical and fun" when asked about the benefits of dating a younger man. Another 24 percent selected 'other,' and filled in things like "better health and appearance," "age is just a number, we connected" and "a younger man has more energy."

Anyway, congrats Dallas and Fort Worth. We suppose it's better to be known for something rather than nothing.

Top 10 cougar cities, according to Plenty of Fish:
  1. San Antonio, Texas
  2. Houston, Texas
  3. Las Vegas, Nevada
  4. Phoenix, Arizona
  5. Atlanta, Georgia
  6. Jacksonville, Florida
  7. Dallas, Texas
  8. Fort Worth, Texas
  9. Los Angeles, California
  10. El Paso, Texas
*If you're wondering why we didn't ask what sort of regression analysis PlentyOfFish on its data to see if this is real correlation or just stuff they put in a list for online, it's because this is a list about women PlentyOfFish calls "cougars," so, you know ...
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Paige Skinner has written for the Dallas Observer since 2014.
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