Heavy gray storm clouds lingered over downtown Dallas on Friday night as Alyssa Kinsey crossed South Lamar with a bouquet of flowers in hand. Her eyes welling with tears, she stopped in front of a makeshift memorial in front of Dallas police headquarters. She paused, tears now streaming down her face, before gingerly placing the flowers in front of a sign that read, in thick black letters, "Remember Botham Shem Jean."
On Friday night, Kinsey, her boyfriend, Lloyd Harvey, and about 150 other people gathered in front of the Dallas Police Department for a vigil honoring the man Kinsey knew as Bo, her neighbor at the South Side Flats apartments across the street. Kinsey and Harvey were at home when they heard the shots that ended his life.
On Thursday night around 10 p.m., an off-duty Dallas police officer shot and killed the 26-year-old man after the officer attempted to enter his apartment, believing it to be her own, according to statements from DPD. The as-yet-unnamed officer was just coming off a shift and was still in uniform, DPD says. Neighbors say they heard two gunshots
, and little else. Jean was taken to Baylor University Medical Center, where he later died.
Around 150 people gathered at the Friday night vigil in front of DPD headquarters.
The incident was initially handled as an officer-involved shooting, which meant police questioned the officer and took a blood sample but did not take her into custody, and she was placed on paid administrative leave pending an investigation. On Friday afternoon, Dallas Police Chief U. Renee Hall requested a manslaughter warrant for the officer. As of Friday night, the cop has not been named, nor has she been taken into police custody. The Texas Rangers are conducting an independent investigation.
As the heavy thunderstorm receded on Friday night, a diverse group of people — ample media outlets in the wings — memorialized Jean at the vigil, organized by local activist group Mothers Against Police Brutality.
"The first purpose of the vigil is to lift up this poor man who was killed — his family is not here, they're on a Caribbean island, so we wanted to lift him up and honor him," said John Fullinwider, co-founder of Mothers Against Police Brutality. "The second purpose of the vigil is to demand the special treatment of this officer be ended."
Throughout the peaceful gathering, between memories of Jean shared by parishioners from Dallas West Church of Christ, where Jean was a youth group leader, activists called for the arrest of the officer who shot him. At a Friday afternoon press conference, Chief Hall said she was uncertain of the officer's whereabouts and that her name won't be released until she's officially charged.
Young King Solomon Grayson runs in front of a makeshift memorial for Jean in front of DPD headquarters.
"If this was not an officer who pulled the trigger, they would be in a jail cell tonight," Dallas Muslim community leader Omar Suleiman said during the vigil. "This is a person who murdered another human being. Until she is held accountable, we will not be silent."
Jean, a native of St. Lucia, worked at the Dallas office of PwC, a consulting and tax service firm. His friends and neighbors described him repeatedly as a kind, studious Christian. "He was a really great guy — like, always the nicest guy," Harvey said of his neighbor, the only neighbor who offered to help two strangers, Harvey and Kinsey, move into their building.
People held up signs throughout the vigil: "Where is justice when police kill us?" "End police brutality," "Disarm off duty police." Activists and religious leaders called for expanded power for the Dallas Citizens Police Review Board, for the arrest of the police officer and for change in DPD's policing. If there were DPD officers at the vigil, they did not make their presence known.
"We need to push past our initial grief," said Dr. Michael W. Waters, pastor of Joy Tabernacle African Methodist Episcopal Church in Dallas. "As hours turn to days, as days turn to weeks, as weeks turn to months, sometimes you go back to the status quo to live in our lives as usual, and we never really push open the doors of justice in this nation.
"If you are here tonight, I want to challenge you: I don’t want this moment to ease your conscience," Waters said, his voice cracking. "I hope it stirs something deep inside of you to roll up your sleeves and work so we won’t have to gather under these cloudy skies again."
See more photos from the vigil for Jean in our slideshow.